haha... suddenly kept having this song in my head... asking me to "take it slow... wooow take it slow..."
Anyway just a quick update... I'm so packed with work and useless meetings... even night meetings... its taking away my valuable time to do my own work...
Oh yah... I really need to thank all these super sweet brothers and sisters who remembered xiao di my "1st Cried"... well, just to keep everyone informed, I'll be having my birthday this year at work... and after that I'll be heading down to some Branch office for meeting... so basically, I'm wasted... I don't know many ppl in office actually remembers my birthday... or simply my birthday is nothing to them... Maybe I'll fall sick that day ? ha ha
Back to my story of "take it slow"... I think it is true... Having a few jobs wanting to hire me but they are soooo slow and reluctant to talk abt pay... I guess it is their tactics... anyway my counter tactic is to take it slow... play by ear loh...
Even relationship also... I'd realised, just like work, I'd been giving all my best at things... but nothing turns out great... and I'll be taken for granted... so I'm taking things slow... if it doesn't turn out good then... what to do? but I really felt wei qu doing all the work and putting all the efforts...
okie I wanna go shit le...
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Glad that you have already gone for interviews. I am sure you will find a job that is suitable for you and pays well too. All the best!
To be honest, I think all of us have given a lot in our past relationships and have been hurt badly before in the sphere of love.
I think you are really not alone, many of us are apt to feel that we are afraid of getting hurt and we do not want to put too much effort into something especially coz we are afraid that it will not be reciprocated. We do not want to be in an inequitable relationship where we put in all the effort and the other party, not at all.
This inevitably leads to some form of vicious cycle or self-fulfilling prophecy coz the partner will be able to feel the distance you place or the way you treat her and will withdraw from the relationship herself.
I think we all need to overcome the initial fear of getting hurt and develop trust in our partners again. Haha, it is something that is easy to say but not easy to do.
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